I Scream No Ice Cream

"The one who hates correction will die."

             Proverbs 15:10b.

Sometimes people around us that we love dearly suffer steadily.  Their entire lives are a struggle.  There doesn't seem to be much that we can do about it, no matter what we try.

I feel for these people- it's sad and depressing to think of someones entire life being such a struggle.  Typically people who struggle in one area will slowly start to struggle in other areas as well, before you know it their entire life is a series of sad dramatic car wrecks.

If they're getting bad results consistently, maybe they need to do something differently?

People with tough lives usually hate correction.  They don't want to hear their friends advice, or if they do, they don't follow through with change.  Their parents, counselors, pastors, co-workers, and bosses cannot get through to them.  Can anyone correct a person who hates correction and is unwilling to change?

Change

If you read a life changing book, see a life changing movie, or have a life changing moment; you should be different.  I have always associated growth and new direction in ones life to typically be a good thing.  Yet, I hear so much nay saying when someone sees someone who has changed.  "Oh, that's not the same old Billy Bob I used to know, what happened to Billy Bob!?".

Maybe Billy Bob read a book, or saw a crack on the sidewalk one day, and realized something he had not yet realized, and he let that moment fundamentally change him.  Isn't that what we do in counseling?  Are we not looking for a fundamental lens shift?  A deeper understanding, that will hopefully stay with us, heal us, and lead us to new heights?  If we are all the same this year as we were 5 years ago,then I have to wonder if we are living life the way it is meant to be lived.